Man blames Woman, Woman makes Excuses....

Tonight at my class I learned that man will blame woman for their problems and put it on them. And woman will make excuses what is wrong with the situation. I learned this tonight.

So I get home and my ex-boyfriend had a friend of his brought a supea to my house to change the parenting schedule to Wednesday nights at 8:30pm so that Jacob can go to this AWANA thing that he wants our son to go to. Well, when I heard about all of this, I read what was on the supea and then I looked up this church that he is supposedly going to, Southside Baptist Church of Sunfish, Minnesota. I looked it up and the class isn't on Wednesday nights. It is on Thursaday nights. What the heck! I don't get it. What is he trying to do? Does he think that I don't look up this crap. I don't get it. Well, I am not going to have any excuse for this, but he can blame me for everything that happens in Jacob's life. He (Ben) should realize that life is not blaming the other person for what just happened.

I will not be blamed for the justice of my son and his actions. I will not be blamed for my ex-boyfriends actions. I will not make up any excuse for my actions, for I am a woman of rights and authority of myself. I will not be pushed around for the type of person I am. I will not be pushed around for being a WOMAN! There is nothing wrong with just being who I am. I will try and change the excuses that I have in my life and change it for the greater good. I will be me and truthful.

Before I say anymore, I will get going.

Later my peeps!

Labor Day Weekend.....

So over the Labor Day Weekend Michael, and the kids and I had a pretty decent one. Saturday Michael had fixed my car. We had to get a new fuel pump for it. I couldn't believe how long it took him to fix it. But we got it done. I mainly stayed inside to watch the kids because I didn't want them to get into any trouble. Jacob wanted to be outside watching him. So I let him go out and watch him. Jacob absolutely loves watching Michael fixing the cars or what not. It could also be putting up a simple wall or whatever. He loves it! Then on Sunday Michael started to organize the shed. It is turning out great. We got started on this project now and soon, hopefully very soon, we will get it finished. We still have a closet that we need to finish as well. I can't wait for that to be finished.

Well, Monday, Labor Day, it was one of the most boring days that I think that I have ever had. Despite spending some time with Jacob and my dad and everyone, I had tried to forget that Michael was off working with his dad. Even though it would have been nice if Michael were home with us doing what a family normally does. But there is no getting over that barrier. Well, yeah.

So, I guess that this is just going to be another year full of another adventures that we will just have to over come. I don't got to school and I am a stay at home mom at the moment, that is looking for a job. Anyone want to give me one!?!? Wow, am I desperate or what...

Well, laterz peeps!